When Should I Call Her Again

Should I telephone call her again or is she just not interested?

Question - (13 March 2006) half-dozen Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2006)

A male , *ill23 writes:

Got approached on the railroad train by this daughter who gave me her number, I chosen her up and nosotros started talking. She told me how she had been checking me out for similar 2 months and that she wanted the states to get together, everything was going adept. We called each other similar 4 or v days straight fifty-fifty though most of it was quick conversation or phone tag because of our busy schedules but I called her upwardly fifty-fifty if information technology was to simply to say hi. Well for 2 days I didn't hear from her and I chosen her up to see how she was. I had rescheduled our plans to hang out because I had canceled them the previous calendar week due to piece of work and she said okay we tin can hang out and at present information technology's been like almost a calendar week and a one-half and I haven't heard from her and she never called to claw upward. Was she really interested in me, should I play myself fool and call her upward or let her be the 1 to call me. And if I see or hear form her what should I do.

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A male person reader, Bill23 +, writes (fifteen March 2006):

Bill23 is verified equally being past the original poster of the question Then because I had to get my piece of work hours straight so that I won't be working 3pm to eleven:thirty pm and then plow around with perchance 2 hours of sleep be back at the airport 3am to 11:30am She doesn't want annihilation to do with me anymore is lame. I sympathise that she put herself out in that location telling me how she liked me and all and that it was all up to me to follow through only my money and my health with getting as little sleep that I do during the calendar week is my first priority. Only like she has a kid if something comes upward with her daughter she would have done the same thing. At to the lowest degree I call her back after not hearing form her in 2 days to ready upwards a date with her. If she wanted to exist with me similar she said and then she would have come up through on getting together considering information technology was her idea, how is she going to flip the script on me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2006):

I think it was pretty brave of her to arroyo you lot. Almost women wouldn't. She'due south already put herself out there, and so I think it's up to you now. The fact that yous cancelled plans with her puts her in a vulnerable position. She may be thinking that you aren't really interested in seeing her and that you're making excuses, etc. If you actually desire to see her, you lot as the human being should act as such. Take the initiative and call her to inquire her out, non just to chit-chat, but to brand plans. Many guys make the mistake of request IF a girl would like to "hang out" and so get out it up to the girl to practice the leg piece of work. If you want to date her, ask for a date. This fashion in that location's no confusion and you'll alive up to being the man she thinks you lot are.

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A female person reader, Hopeful +, writes (14 March 2006):

I would wait at it like this - if she is playing games, forget her, if she does information technology now imagine if you dated her. Or she is not interested and in that example, she is an idiot because you lot audio like a great guy and find someone who deserves you. i would leave it, the ball is well and truly in her courtroom at present.

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A female reader, Aunt Sally +, writes (thirteen March 2006):

It sounds like she does not know what to do and is behaving quite childishly. You have every correct to introduce friends to her. She needs to abound up and human action similar an developed. i think it better that she does that with someone else - you need your own life and to share it with someome who respects you for who you are. Stop chasing her!

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A male person reader, Bill23 +, writes (thirteen March 2006):

Bill23 is verified as beingness by the original poster of the question My thing is, if she didn't want anything to practise with me anymore she should take told me instead of interim similar this. Come to think of it there was i time that I came up to her section where she worked, my friend was with me because he collection me up in that location were she was at to get equipment for our next flight we had to work on. Maybe she was mad at the fact that he was up in that location because I remember 1 chat with her when she talking to me and just stopped the conversation and asked was I with my friends. Maybe that'south another reason why she hasn't chosen. She must have idea I was trying to show her to my friend when I wasn't.

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A female reader, Aunt Sally +, writes (13 March 2006):

I would put this ane down to feel. Don't call her. If she really wanted to meet you or speak to y'all, she would notice time, no matter how decorated her schedule was. If she calls you, keep information technology absurd. I think she is playing with you. Find someone who wants to be with you lot likewise, not just someone playing games.Proficient luck!

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